Today marks one year since I decided to take the plunge and get myself a piercing that could help with my endless migraines, the piercing itself is meant to be a acupuncture spot which when pressed on will help relieve pressure in the brain and ease migraines, allegedly…

One year on from that day and I can saw a few things, on is that its been a bit of a hassle to clean and care for, I am used to having the simple lobe piercings which honestly do not require much care and attention and of course heal quicker than any cartilage or body modification, the time frame of when it was expected to heal is around a year but like all things every body is different and mine has some way to go until its fully healed, it itches and if you do not clean it correctly with salt water it can become infected quickly and is known as one of the most difficult piercings to heal because of where it is and can be rejected from the body..

Thankfully while I have had the odd infection which I cleared up fine with salt water, and my body hasn’t rejected it what so ever (even if I was worried it would) I do feel like it hasn’t completely healed just yet, its prevented me from wearing inner ear headphones which I would do if I went into town with Robin and she would fall asleep, but it hasn’t effected sleeping or using larger headphones when I play games so that’s a plus.

I have yet to change it to a new piercing mainly because I don’t feel like its healed and I don’t want to effect it but I honestly don’t think I will change it, its movable which is handy for cleaning but I do not know the size of the bar so I don’t want to buy a new one and it be to small or to large for the hole which is far..

As for the headaches.. they are still there but aren’t as strong as they used to be, I suffer with the basic migraines and the horrible but thankfully short ocular migraines and I do feel like its doing something to them as they arent as life ruining as they used to be, I wouldn’t be able to do anything before and would spent most of my days hiding in a dark room and complaining about the painkillers not working..

I do feel like it has made a dent in my headaches, but I don’t think its the complete answer to them and I will probably continue to need medication throughout my life along with the effects of the piercing..

It may have worked for some but its not completely worked for me, and of course that doesn’t mean it wont work for you if you also suffer from migraines, here is some more information about the piercing itself.

until next time

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I feel that I need to share with you what happened to my blog at the start of the week..

…basically I am an idiot…

Sunday was like any other day, I had spent the whole week before being really careful with money because I wanted to make sure I had the max amount possible for when we go away in July so I didn’t spend much.. a few snacks here and of course my gas and electric needed doing but I felt confident that on sunday, I was going into Monday without any money issues what so ever!

During that week I had an unexpected weird transaction on my paypal account, it was a lot for me so I signed into my paypal, put in a claim and thankfully got the money back so when Sunday rolled around, I had £79 taken out of my account without me saying yes to it, I naturally panicked because that’s a lot of money and repeated the same again, I claimed it back but because it was a sunday I didn’t expect anything to go in or go out etc so when someone told me that my site wasn’t there.

Only me, Only I could break things, and amazingly I decided to break my blog a few days before Mr S went away to Sweden for a gaming event so there was this tiny window in which we could fix it, but thankfully, it was sorted.. I had to buy a new scheme with WordPress and hope that everything would go back to how it was before.. it did come back, mainly my old theme at first and some older posts that were dated back to January before I switched over to self hosted.. but thankfully its back and back in time for a important post that needed to go live on the 22nd..

Basically I had cancelled an important payment that broke my own blog, I mean who else could be that stupid haha! but its all fixed and I managed to get that post up in time and I can sit back and relax for the time being.

so let that be a little warning, don’t panic and do something stupid.. read first and always try to laugh at yourself!

until next time

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Sometimes with my blog I like to take time out on all the scheduled posts and give a little life update, because lets face it, that’s what blogging used to be about, sitting down and updating those who follow you about daily life and anything in-between and so I have been mildly afk due to some life stuff I thought it would be a good idea to shed some light on why I haven’t done much in the case of writing and blogging, hell even my twitter and instagram have taken a beating.

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This week has been one of the hardest I’ve dealt with lately, for the past two or three weeks, I’ve honestly lost count, Robin hasn’t been eating properly.. we’ve offered her food but she has this new thing of throwing whatever we’ve offered her onto the floor and then when she did eat something, it hasn’t been the most healthiest of things but to add to the stress, shes also had a horrific cold and those with children will understand that when one child has a cold, the parents suffer the most.

I cannot remember the day this all started, all I know is that this is the first time in a long while that I have almost passed out in a car journey back from food shopping on thursday evening.. I feel like a sick toddler is harder than a newborn, because lets face it, newborns will happily go back to sleep once they have been dealt with and the mornings arent as bad.. because you could just put the newborn back into its bed and it will let you have a few extra minutes of peace.

..a two year old however.. will throw her toys at you or scream at you if you so much as touch your head to the pillow, we’ve co-shared the bed, we’ve been tough and told her to go back to sleep but its now at the point where bedtime or.. I guess night time is a big struggle and its actually caused me to really judge my ability of being a mother and really push my sanity to its limits and while it has been difficult, I have tried to look at it all with a positive outlook, I have been getting lots of cuddles of Robin and while I haven’t done much writing on the actual blog I have so many ideas written down for lots of posts for the month of May which I am hoping to get written and posted once her routine goes back to normal and thankfully because of her being poorly Mr S has been doing the school runs for me allowing me to not have to get makeup on and let my skin breath a little…

Funny how a few sick days can sometimes be a little curse as well a blessing.. and with a better nights sleep my brain is feeling a lot less fuzzy and Robin is feeling better in herself, back to her demonic little self!

Which in turn hopefully means that next week will be the most productive week yet!

until next time

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Well.. I did it.. my little space on the internet is now officially self hosted and hopefully you can see that I have a brand new theme that I brought in June last year.. I honestly don’t know why I didn’t do this sooner..

Well I do..

Because I break things..

Which is what i’m going to talk about now, Monday I decided to switch over, I had saved up a bit so I could buy the hosting and I was assured that it would be easy as anything to get it going and get everything in order..

I was extremely wrong.. of course.. I believe that I am the only person in the world who could be told something is easy and get it bloody wrong all the time, I cried.. a lot.. which might be blamed for the fact that Robin hasn’t slept properly for the past couple of months and I am utterly tired but I paid for the hosting and then I was very much like.. ‘well now what?’

My husband told me not to touch anything and wait until he got home to help and he did… but NONE of my post appeared and I couldn’t figure out why, so in the space of me panicking and him returning home from work another day I sat and made it look how I wanted too (I hope you all like it) until he showed me how to transfer things over correctly..

I just want to give a big shout out thank you for Britt for the advice and help, to Vicki for the help and the push to do it and of course my husband for actually doing it correctly for me.

I am now PROUDLY welcoming you to the brand new shiny pretty and professional (looking) Mummy Cat Notes.

Until next time

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As the weeks go on R is improving so much with her speech, she’s now super expressive and it honestly continues to amaze me how much she’s improving in such a tiny space of time,

It still feels like yesterday that she was a tiny little squeaky newborn but we are now slowly reaching her second birthday and it’s sad but wonderful seeing her grow and learn.

So now that we are at 19 months I felt like it would be great to give an update on what she can say now. To view what she said at 17 months you can find the post here.

  • Loki’ – she used to just say ‘cat’ repeatedly but lately R has started saying the cats actual name which is so cute! She will now stand at the baby gate yelling ‘Loki!!’ to get his attention.
  • Socks‘ and ‘shoes’ – she doesn’t fully say those two words but more of a shuuee sound which is directed at her shoes and socks so it’s pretty clear what she’s attempting to say.
  • Amelia‘ – we never expected this one, much like ‘shoe’ she’s attempting the sound and will say ‘amelma’ which is always directed at our middle child.
  • Dadda‘ – everyone’s first word, but it’s now shouted to get Mr S’s attention and sometimes followed by a ramble of sounds like a conversation.
  • Mumma‘ – another surprising one, not often uttered but is aimed at me, when I prompt her to say it she will say ‘dada’ out of spite but I do get shouted at on occasion haha
  • Nana‘ – Nana is nice and easy, she squeals it when my mum turns up at the house.
  • Taaa‘ – this has been going on for a bit but it’s now obvious what she is saying, said when she’s either wanting something or giving something, manners at their finest.
  • Bye’ and ‘night night‘ – she’s always waved but now she will wave and say bye to anyone who’s getting a coat on, and when it comes to her bed time she will go around the house saying ‘naai’ to everyone which is her way of saying ‘goodnight’
  • Copying us when we count ‘one two three‘ – Mr S got her to start this one, she has no clue what she’s doing but will gladly and proudly repeat back at us ‘un, tooo, feeee, foooor’ she’s happy and the other two children love making her repeat it back to them.
  • Bum‘ – pretty self explanatory, said whenever she sees a nappy because we call nappies ‘bums’ after saying ‘change your bum’ many times.

Each month is something new and I can’t wait for what she will learn to say next which I will of course update you on.

Until next time

Mummy Cat

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Me, Being Mummy
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