Sometimes with my blog I like to take time out on all the scheduled posts and give a little life update, because lets face it, that’s what blogging used to be about, sitting down and updating those who follow you about daily life and anything in-between and so I have been mildly afk due to some life stuff I thought it would be a good idea to shed some light on why I haven’t done much in the case of writing and blogging, hell even my twitter and instagram have taken a beating.

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This week has been one of the hardest I’ve dealt with lately, for the past two or three weeks, I’ve honestly lost count, Robin hasn’t been eating properly.. we’ve offered her food but she has this new thing of throwing whatever we’ve offered her onto the floor and then when she did eat something, it hasn’t been the most healthiest of things but to add to the stress, shes also had a horrific cold and those with children will understand that when one child has a cold, the parents suffer the most.

I cannot remember the day this all started, all I know is that this is the first time in a long while that I have almost passed out in a car journey back from food shopping on thursday evening.. I feel like a sick toddler is harder than a newborn, because lets face it, newborns will happily go back to sleep once they have been dealt with and the mornings arent as bad.. because you could just put the newborn back into its bed and it will let you have a few extra minutes of peace.

..a two year old however.. will throw her toys at you or scream at you if you so much as touch your head to the pillow, we’ve co-shared the bed, we’ve been tough and told her to go back to sleep but its now at the point where bedtime or.. I guess night time is a big struggle and its actually caused me to really judge my ability of being a mother and really push my sanity to its limits and while it has been difficult, I have tried to look at it all with a positive outlook, I have been getting lots of cuddles of Robin and while I haven’t done much writing on the actual blog I have so many ideas written down for lots of posts for the month of May which I am hoping to get written and posted once her routine goes back to normal and thankfully because of her being poorly Mr S has been doing the school runs for me allowing me to not have to get makeup on and let my skin breath a little…

Funny how a few sick days can sometimes be a little curse as well a blessing.. and with a better nights sleep my brain is feeling a lot less fuzzy and Robin is feeling better in herself, back to her demonic little self!

Which in turn hopefully means that next week will be the most productive week yet!

until next time

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Well.. I did it.. my little space on the internet is now officially self hosted and hopefully you can see that I have a brand new theme that I brought in June last year.. I honestly don’t know why I didn’t do this sooner..

Well I do..

Because I break things..

Which is what i’m going to talk about now, Monday I decided to switch over, I had saved up a bit so I could buy the hosting and I was assured that it would be easy as anything to get it going and get everything in order..

I was extremely wrong.. of course.. I believe that I am the only person in the world who could be told something is easy and get it bloody wrong all the time, I cried.. a lot.. which might be blamed for the fact that Robin hasn’t slept properly for the past couple of months and I am utterly tired but I paid for the hosting and then I was very much like.. ‘well now what?’

My husband told me not to touch anything and wait until he got home to help and he did… but NONE of my post appeared and I couldn’t figure out why, so in the space of me panicking and him returning home from work another day I sat and made it look how I wanted too (I hope you all like it) until he showed me how to transfer things over correctly..

I just want to give a big shout out thank you for Britt for the advice and help, to Vicki for the help and the push to do it and of course my husband for actually doing it correctly for me.

I am now PROUDLY welcoming you to the brand new shiny pretty and professional (looking) Mummy Cat Notes.

Until next time

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As the weeks go on R is improving so much with her speech, she’s now super expressive and it honestly continues to amaze me how much she’s improving in such a tiny space of time,

It still feels like yesterday that she was a tiny little squeaky newborn but we are now slowly reaching her second birthday and it’s sad but wonderful seeing her grow and learn.

So now that we are at 19 months I felt like it would be great to give an update on what she can say now. To view what she said at 17 months you can find the post here.

  • Loki’ – she used to just say ‘cat’ repeatedly but lately R has started saying the cats actual name which is so cute! She will now stand at the baby gate yelling ‘Loki!!’ to get his attention.
  • Socks‘ and ‘shoes’ – she doesn’t fully say those two words but more of a shuuee sound which is directed at her shoes and socks so it’s pretty clear what she’s attempting to say.
  • Amelia‘ – we never expected this one, much like ‘shoe’ she’s attempting the sound and will say ‘amelma’ which is always directed at our middle child.
  • Dadda‘ – everyone’s first word, but it’s now shouted to get Mr S’s attention and sometimes followed by a ramble of sounds like a conversation.
  • Mumma‘ – another surprising one, not often uttered but is aimed at me, when I prompt her to say it she will say ‘dada’ out of spite but I do get shouted at on occasion haha
  • Nana‘ – Nana is nice and easy, she squeals it when my mum turns up at the house.
  • Taaa‘ – this has been going on for a bit but it’s now obvious what she is saying, said when she’s either wanting something or giving something, manners at their finest.
  • Bye’ and ‘night night‘ – she’s always waved but now she will wave and say bye to anyone who’s getting a coat on, and when it comes to her bed time she will go around the house saying ‘naai’ to everyone which is her way of saying ‘goodnight’
  • Copying us when we count ‘one two three‘ – Mr S got her to start this one, she has no clue what she’s doing but will gladly and proudly repeat back at us ‘un, tooo, feeee, foooor’ she’s happy and the other two children love making her repeat it back to them.
  • Bum‘ – pretty self explanatory, said whenever she sees a nappy because we call nappies ‘bums’ after saying ‘change your bum’ many times.

Each month is something new and I can’t wait for what she will learn to say next which I will of course update you on.

Until next time

Mummy Cat

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I thought I would give a little update on what’s been going on with my middle child’s ears..

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She reached the end of the 6 week ‘healing’ on the second week of school after the summer holidays so we decided to take them out purely on the days which she had PE at school with the promise to pop them back in once I picked her up… seems like a great idea apart from the fact that I didn’t anticipate her ears semi healing over during the time she was at school..

A little ‘ouch’ here and a ‘ooo’ there, we managed to push them back in, quickly googling I find out that the six weeks is earliest amount of time for a piercing to be healed, frustrated we decided to leave them in for a little longer…

Roll on four weeks later when I notice her ears had bled, they weren’t infected because they didn’t feel hot and she didn’t say they hurt, so once again I googled and found that she may have a nickel allergy, one of the images I found looked extremely similar to a rash she developed after wearing some cheap necklace..

After doing a bit more research, we removed the gold earrings and replaced them with a silver pair and started cleaning them with sea salt..

The very next day, almost over night, they improved, they weren’t bloody and seemed completely healed, so we stopped with the salt water and just cleaned them with regular water..

Unfortunately, during a party I noticed her ears looked bruised, I checked the back of them and she had this huge pus spot where the butterfly sat, I quickly removed them and when we got home started cleaning them again with salt, she asked for them to go back in but we now have to make sure to clean them morning and at bed time until they are completely healed.

I have never experienced this before with my own ears, I don’t think I even bothered ‘cleaning’ my last set which just healed on their own without any trouble..

Honestly, Not sure where we are going from here on, besides constantly cleaning them and hoping for the best.

Who knew ears could be so much trouble!

Have you ever experienced any difficulty with piercings? or is it a lost cause..

Until next time

Mummy Cat.

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I have talked about my un-diagnosed anxiety quiet a bit on my blog, because its something that is always there and always in the back of my mind..

After what I can only describe as the worst seven weeks of my life, finally ending, well its not ended but its ended up with me dealing with an increase in panic/anxiety attacks, just last week I had three in one week when I usually have one once a month if I’m lucky..

and one of the days I had two back to back of each other.. not good..

So… I am super proud of myself, that I finally picked up the phone and called my GP… to talk to someone about my issues, my mum has recommended that I go see her massage therapist, so that’s probably where I am going to go, if the doctor asks me if I would like treatment, I don’t want to medicate.. I want to try and talk through my problems first before going down the extreme route of medication..

Not that medication is bad, but I don’t think it would be right for me, as I know I find talking much more therapeutic, Mr S has dealt with me talking all the time about my issues, I think its fair that he gets a little break haha.

My appointment is on the 18th of August, my mum is coming with me as I will be alone with the children, offering me support and trying to  make sure that my opinions on being medicated at this second, aren’t ignored.

I feel proud I did it, considering I don’t like talking to people on the phone OR people in general, its a big step for me..

A big step in a much more healthier mind.

I will update you all more later..

Mummy Cat

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