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Amelia’s New Ears..

For a while now there has been a big debate in the world of parenting, when is the best time to get a child’s ears pierced.

and honestly, when they ask..

Since A turned four she would go on and on about getting her ears pierced like mummy, I didn’t mind when she had it done as long as she decides and she chooses, I wasn’t going to push her into doing it because that wouldn’t be fair on her.

So on a bright and sunny Tuesday morning we headed into town with a mission to get A’s ears pierced.. a case of if we don’t do it now it will never get done, we once again headed to Custom Ink, the place where I got my daith piercing done 6 weeks before, you can read about that here We had thought about going to Claire’s but they unfortunately had been booked up until the following day and we both just wanted to get it over and done with, so Custom Ink was the next best thing and they opened up at 10.

We had a little charity shop hunt before had for some books, because who doesn’t like both charity shops and reading? and once 10am rolled around we walked over to the piercing studio and was the first in line to get it done.

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I am super proud of A, I had told her that it might hurt, I pinched her ears so she could experience what it may feel like, I didn’t want to lie to her and tell her it was going to be painless because everyone experiences pain completely differently, I asked her over and over again if she was sure and Sue the lady who did the piercing also asked the same, she was sure, and so… click click, it was done.

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Not a single scream, tear… or anything really, she said ouch for the second one but from experience the second piercing always hurt more than the first, probably down to the fact that you know what it feels like and so your brain just says ‘yup that hurt’ but I am so proud of her, she got a back of sweets for her and her brother and danced around the town before heading home for some ice cream..

A had a huge smile on her face for the rest of the day, I showed her how to clean them properly and how to twiddle them around.. she is really happy with them and I am glad she likes them too, I also explained to her that if she wants to she can take them out and let them heal over, its completely down to her..

I keep catching her looking at herself in the mirror haha!

Going back to the debate of piercing ears of children, wait until they ask, tell them exactly what to expect and don’t lie to them that its not going to hurt.. and just make sure that they are 100% sure that they want it done.

What was your experiences with piercings? are you like me and have about 9 holes in your ears and want many more.. or are you more normal and want just a single or none..

Would you let your children get their ears done if they start asking?

Until next time

Mummy Cat

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Back to School – Summer Term.

YAY!

Call me heartless all you like but I know my children very much enjoy school and I know that I like to have time away from them and enjoy some play time with the youngest (and actually not hear arguments for a change) so when the half term ends, and when the summer holidays end, I make myself a cup of tea and manage to drink it warm for a change!

I do enjoy having my eldest two home with me, but my goodness its a blessing when they finally return to school and their friends from 9 – 3, some relish in having the children off for a few weeks, not having to do the school run daily and be able to just lazy about and do nothing like sit down and ignore the housework because it will end up messy again straight away.. but for me, my favorite time is the school run, I love chatting to the children about what they hope to do at school for that week and they in turn tell me that they are excited for school dinners.. It’s never about what they might learn that’s for sure haha!

I enjoy kissing them goodbye at their classroom doors and walking away knowing they are in safe hands and they are having a blast seeing their friends again and doing things school children do, I get to go home, or head into town with my youngest and have some much-needed quality time with just me and my baby.

I am extremely blessed that my children enjoy school and are extremely proud of their high attendance record, K has worked so hard this year and has done about 16 months of improvement in the space of 6 months while A is completely coming out of her shell and is so bright, she has a drawing pad that she will write down everything she sees which is a big difference from how she was at the start of the year just scribbling down lines and ticks..

School is more than just learning and testing, some of my fondest memories are from the friends and adventures we got up to in school, all those teachers passing on their knowledge of subjects they so fondly take pride in telling, While I have learnt a lot more in subjects i find truly interesting outside of school but that’s purely expanding what I learnt.

This term is all about the final part of the year, full of fun like the sports day and the key stage 1 trip to the beach at the end of the month, it’s about waving goodbye to year 2 and Reception and excitement about meeting new teachers and learning new things along the way.

I’ll admit I didn’t enjoy school as much as my children do, I couldn’t wait to get away from the place, the people I liked but school in general.. I think that’s why I want my children to enjoy it.

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and I think they enjoyed it today what with the puddles and rain!

Until next time

Mummy Cat

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May Day ramblings.


How is it May already? Goodness I am not prepared for how fast this year has gone! 

We went to the dreaded hell known as ToysRus the other day, purely because we had some vouchers that needed spending before they ran out, K got a Dinotrux, A got a Belle doll and R got some wooden letter blocks as I currently have an obsession with wooden toys… mainly after I won a Grimms Rainbow from eBay..

We also went to mothercare for more toys (do they really need that many?!) as once again more vouchers required spending, just for R this time and she got some more wooden blocks and some rattly things.. I also admired a Bugaboo Buffalo (not allowed one sadly)
For the May day (which is when this post was done) my wonderful husband Mr S is taking the eldest two to their nans for their weekly visit, this usually happens on a Sunday but as it’s a bank holiday and he’s got a few days off, they’re making the visit today.. can’t wait for a bit of me and R time.. hopefully she had a nap so I can crack on with washing (and watching all the stuff I’ve recorded hah)

I hope you all have a lovely bank holiday!

Until next time.

Mummy Cat x